This is that season to eat, drink and be merry. Forget your sorrows. God will take care of that. The bible says in Nehemiah 8:10 “Then he said unto them, Go your way, eat the fat, and drink the sweet, and send portions unto them for whom nothing is prepared: for this day is holyContinue reading “Eat, drink and be merry”
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What does 12/12 mean to me?
To me, 12/12 is not about numbers lining up. It is about alignment. It feels like a spiritual pause, a moment where God gently asks me to check in with my heart before the year closes. In Scripture, twelve often represents divine order. When I see it doubled, I think of God emphasizing structure, intention,Continue reading “What does 12/12 mean to me?”
Bittersweet November
I sat down today, just trying to relax, letting old Afro beats carry me somewhere lighter. Then that song came on, “Fall in Love” by D’banj. The moment those first notes hit, it felt like someone opened a door in my chest. Suddenly I was back in the early days, young and hopeful, dreaming aboutContinue reading “Bittersweet November”
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💞 When Touch Stops Talking: The Silent Cost of a S*Xless Life
Let’s be honest — nobody ever plans to stop having intimacy.It doesn’t happen overnight.It’s a slow fade. It starts with “I’m tired.”Then, “Let’s try tomorrow.”And before you know it, tomorrow turns into two months, and your body forgets the rhythm of being desired. You start sleeping on opposite edges of the bed, facing the wallContinue reading “💞 When Touch Stops Talking: The Silent Cost of a S*Xless Life”
The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit
This photo stopped me in my tracks today. It’s such a simple drawing, yet it carries one of life’s greatest truths. We live in a world that glorifies quick results instant success, overnight growth, and fast breakthroughs. But real transformation doesn’t work that way. Growth is quiet. It’s slow. It happens beneath the surface longContinue reading “The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit”
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When you think of the word “successful,” who’s the first person that comes to mind and why?
The Silent Funeral
Yes dear, There are some funerals no one attends. Not because there were no invitations, but because no one knew something sacred had died. The funeral when part of you dies from the grief of being unnoticed. When your light flickers quietly, your laughter softens, and your dreams begin to whisper instead of roar. NoContinue reading “The Silent Funeral”
Unvalidated: A Soft Place for Every Soul That Grieved in Silence
Unvalidated: A Soft Place for Every Soul That Grieved in Silence By Ruth Hephzibah Introduction Unvalidated: A Soft Place for Every Soul That Grieved in Silence Let me tell you a secret:Some grief doesn’t cry at funerals.It doesn’t get sympathy cards, casseroles, or prayer lines.Some grief… gets labeled “too sensitive,” “too dramatic,” “too emotional.”But it’sContinue reading “Unvalidated: A Soft Place for Every Soul That Grieved in Silence”
Healing is possible
Things happens Tears roll, Money lost, Life shattered But once you realize who YOU are, Healing is sure. So grab that popcorn Why? HEALING IS NOW!
Ruth Hephzibah Haven 